Monday, 21 September 2015

A Case of Mistaken Identity (Adventures of L-Plate Gran)


There comes a time in every baby's development when they begins to realise they are a separate person from the adults around them and parents/carers have an important role in helping and supporting the child as they establish their own identity. According to the baby experts, that is. Sigh. If only it was that easy...

From a very early age Little G has been fascinated by her own reflection. You must be mad has a large mirror on the floor by the front door and Little G has always spent a lot of time chatting to the baby in the mirror.

She shows the mirror baby her toys and books. She checks to see if the baby in the mirror has the same food. Lately she has taken to standing by the mirror, and kissing the baby. Last week she waved happily to it and said: 'Bye bye baby' as we left. It's very sweet, but I'm not convinced she has made the connection.

The other thing Little G has always enjoyed doing from the moment she could sit unsupported is looking through my online pictures. She loves the cat pictures and the numerous cake ones. Of course a lot of my pictures are of her at various stages and whenever we come to one, I always make sure I tell her: 'Look, it's you!'

Consider my predicament therefore when, scrolling through some pictures the other day, we found a couple of Little G taken recently on holiday. 'So who's that?' I asked. Little G stared hard at the pictures for a second, then announced triumphantly: 'It's you.' Yikes, major #Granfail. I wonder what the baby experts would have to say about that? Nothing good, I fear.





To be continued ...    .....

8 comments:

  1. Hahahahaha! Baby logic... Brilliant :)

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    1. It IS logical..just not the way we do logical

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  2. My gdaughter, who is a bit older than Little G is very conscious of her own identity. She points to her photos and says, "Meme." All her toys are Meme's toys. we are thinking of changing her name to Mimi.

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    1. Haha... you just never realise what they are going to say or do!

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  3. Oh well, at least she's been listening, even if she doesn't always understand!

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  4. Adorable...the thought of her saying goodbye to the baby in the mirror...aww!

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    1. She also says goodbye to the pond fish, the kitten and the toys at my house

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  5. Just love this, CarolStar. You must compile all these posts into a book and give it to her when she's an adult. What a sweetheart…talking to the baby in the mirror! As for you, maybe she thinks she looks like you too? After all, her sense of self doesn't necessarily run to a sense of self image - in the literal sense, that is.

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